Got Problems? Sex, Love and Relationship Advice From SuicideGirls’ Team Agony0
Posted In All Things SG,Blog,Love,Relationships,Sex,Society
by SG’s Team Agony feat. Clio
Let us answer life’s questions – because great advice is even better when it comes from SuicideGirls.
Q: I’ve been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 5 years and love her more then anything, but we don’t have sex anymore. Sex at the start of the relationship was frequent, as is usually the case in new relationships. As time has gone on, we continued to have regular sex, which has always been fantastic, with both of us reaching orgasm, but it has been a long time now.
I try to initiate sex but it doesn’t get anywhere. Sometimes she seems to want it but stops and pushes me away before penetration or any oral can happen. In the past she has found sex quite painful but we have tried again at a different time and there wasn’t a problem. I’m sure she doesn’t use any other mechanism of sexual relief unlike me.
I’ve run out of ideas. I have tried talking to her about the lack of sex in our relationship but she won’t discuss it. It’s beginning to become very frustrating and I don’t feel we are connecting on a physical level anymore, which is starting to put a strain on our relationship.
Any ideas?????
A: Sorry to hear about your lacking sex life. I can imagine your frustration. Physical intimacy is of vital importance to a relationship, so this is definitely something you want to address. Even though your lady doesn’t want to discuss it, you should talk to her about the issue if you want to relieve your blue balls anytime soon.
Is there something going on in her life that might be causing her disinterest in sex? Stress, depression, medication, anemia, hormone imbalance, and various other factors can contribute to a low libido. Communicate with her to understand what could be the problem and tell her how you feel and that it’s affecting your relationship. Consider getting counseling if you think you would benefit from it. If you’ve been drifting apart try taking her out on a romantic date to reconnect with her mentally so you can start connecting again sexually.
Good luck!
Clio
xoxo
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