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Dec 2010 13

By SG’s Team Agony

Let us answer life’s questions – because great advice is even better when it comes from SuicideGirls.


[Squee in Philosophy]

Q. I’m 21-years of age and I’ve been going through a lot. I’ve known a girl for about 8 years and we’ve always been off and on. We stopped talking for 3 years and when we started talking again in April I found out she had a baby. That didn’t bother me. She was no longer with the father of her son but they still kept in contact and her son was still able to see his dad every week. She and I decided to get together and I treated her son as if he was my own. I fell in love with her son – he made me feel so happy when I was around him.

I was so happy to have two people to care about and be there for. After 8 months her grandparents decided to kick her and her sisters out of the house and the only place close to home she could move to was the father of her son’s house. I told her I didn’t want that and asked her to move in with a friend she had that lived near her. She said no, and now she’s living with her ex. She still tells me she loves me and she said she will never lose feelings for me. But I feel like since they’re living together, she’s going to get attached to him and forget about me.

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Dec 2010 13

by Blogbot

They say blondes have more fun, but judging by a recent poll conducted by SuicideGirls the old adage doesn’t ring true anymore.

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Dec 2010 13

by Andrea Larrabee

“I’m old fashioned and modern at the same time,” Rachel Federoff tells me at one point during our phone interview. As a key player in the hit Bravo TV show Millionaire Matchmaker – which is now in its fourth and most successful season to date – Federoff must reconcile her intrinsically alternative self with the always outspoken and often very traditional beliefs of her mentor Patti Stanger, who founded the Millionaire’s Club, the elite matchmaking service upon which the show is based.

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Dec 2010 06

By SG’s Team Agony

Let us answer life’s questions – because great advice is even better when it comes from SuicideGirls.

[Salome in Pop Art Clash ]

Q. I’m 26, he’s 50. I really like him, he is respectful, thoughtful, humble, smart, funny, and just an overall wonderful person with good energy. We have been seeing another for about 3 months now. I was in a bad living situation, and I just moved in with him over the weekend. We both have every intention of this being temporary. I know my feelings will get stronger, as they already have in the last month. He occasionally makes jokes about our age difference, and I feel that it bothers him. I’ve never dated anyone even close to his age, nor did I ever see myself doing so, but it doesn’t bother me at all. I guess I’m just wonderingly what the chances are of things working out.

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Dec 2010 06

by Brad Warner

I first got interested in spiritual practice when I was a teenager and my parents sat me down and told me about the horrible disease that runs in our family. It was, at the time, killing two of my aunts. This disease, they told me, usually begins to manifest when a person gets to be in his mid-thirties. The symptoms get progressively worse and after a while you lose your ability to physically function, your brain deteriorates, you go crazy and then you die.

As if my life weren’t already shitty enough, being an uncoordinated nerd who couldn’t play sports, was shy around girls, and had zits and braces. Now I was going to die a horrendous death before I had time enough to get over this stuff.

Wonderful. Just super.

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Nov 2010 29

By SG’s Team Agony

Let us answer life’s questions – because great advice is even better when it comes from SuicideGirls.


[Shotgun in In The Fog]

Q. There is a girl that I have been trying to date for more than a couple months now. She loves video games, swears and drinks just as much as I do, and has an overall awesome personality. She has told my friends on multiple occasions that she likes me, and wants me to go for it. Here is my dilemma: one of our mutual friends, that she has known way longer than me, I’m pretty sure is deeply in love with her. This is why my decision has taken so long, and now it seems like I have lost my opportunity. I always put my friends before myself, and it always seems to hurt me in the end. I have waited so long, and now it seems like my chance is blown. Though her and I are still friends, it doesn’t seem like she still has the same feelings she once did. Do these feelings really just go away? Should I forget the whole thing, or should I just grow some balls and confront her?

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Nov 2010 22

By SG’s Team Agony

Let us answer life’s questions – because great advice is even better when it comes from SuicideGirls.


[Casca in Professor]

Q. So a couple who are both friends of mine have approached me and asked me if I’d participate in a threesome with them, partly because I’m the token bi friend and partly because the guy kind of has a thing for me. The girl, being the one I’m closer to, was the one who asked. I accepted, because it could be fun, because better me than someone who’ll hog the guy in front of his girlfriend and otherwise not give a shit about them, and because I’m kind of curious how I’ll act in it.

However, today he told me that he’s really worried that she is only going through with it to please him. She’s joked about being curious before, and when he asked her, she said she was sure she didn’t want to back out, but that’s not really the same as actually being up for it. His dilemma, as such, is that he really wants this to happen, and she knows that. She’s not got a vocal problem with it, but he doesn’t want her to feel she’s being pressured into lesbian sex for the sake of him getting his rocks off, nor would he want her to if she wasn’t also game. And truth be told, she’s not really assertive enough that she would say if she didn’t want this to happen.

I agree that this is out of character for her, but she didn’t seem apprehensive when she asked me if I was up for it, so I’m not sure if she’s not genuinely willing to do this. The last thing I want is to drive these two apart – or drive her away from me – but I’m worried that she’ll feel she can’t please him if we cancel.

Please help. We’ve scheduled it for the end of the month, when she’s home from University, but the guy and I have no idea if we should go through with this.

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